NORWOODGROEP FORUM

29 juni

"The first phase of recovery from loving too much begins when we realize what we are doing and wish we could stop."

De eerste fase van herstel van relatieverslaving begint als we ons bewust worden wat we aan het doen zijn en dat we daarmee zouden willen kunnen stoppen.

28 juni "The Tenth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We know that a relationship, in order to work, must be between partners who share similar values, interests, and goals, and who each have a capacity for intimacy. We also know that we are worthy of the best that life has to offe...

27 juni "The Ninth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We value our own serenity above all else. All the struggles, drama, and chaos of the past have lost their appeal. We are protective of ourselves, our health, and our well-being." De negende belofte van genezing van relatiev...

26 juni "The Eighth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction When a relationship is destructive, we are able to let go of it without experiencing disabling depression. We have a circle of supportive friends and healthy interests to see us through crises." De achtste belofte van gene...

25 juni "The Seventh Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We learn to question, 'Is this relationship good for me? Does it enable me to grow into all I am capable of being?'" De zevende belofte van genezing van relatieverslaving: We leren ons af te vragen: 'Is deze relatie goed ...

24 juni "The Sixth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We allow ourselves to be open and trusting with appropriate people. We are not afraid to be known at a deeply personal level, but also we do not expose ourselves to the exploitation of those who are not interested in our well-be...

23 juni "The Fifth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction Our self-esteem is great enough that we can enjoy being with others, especially men, who are fine just as they are. We do not need to be needed in order to feel worthy." De vijfde belofte van genezing van relatieverslaving:...

22 juni "The Fourth Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We cherish every aspect of ourselves: our personalities, our appearance, our beliefs and values, our bodies, our interests, and our accomplishments. We validate ourselves rather than searching for relationships to give us a sen...

21 juni The Third Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We are in touch with our feelings and attitudes about every aspect of our lives, including our sexuality. De derde belofte van genezing van relatieverslaving: We zijn ons bewust van onze gevoelens en onze houding ten opzichte van iede...

20 juni "The Second Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We accept others as they are, without trying to change them to meet our needs." De tweede belofte van genezing van relatieverslaving: We accepteren anderen zoals zij zijn, zonder te proberen hen te veranderen om aan onze b...

19 juni "The First Promise of Recovery from Relationship Addiction We accept ourselves fully, even while wanting to change parts of ourselves. There is a basic self-love and self-regard, which we carefully nurture and purposely expand." De eerste belofte van genezing van relatieverslaving:...

18 juni "Being willing to learn a new way of living one day at a time is far more productive in the long run than trying too hard to go too fast." De bereidheid om stap voor stap een nieuwe manier van leven te leren, is op de lange termijn veel productiever dan heel erg je best doen om het...

17 juni

"If relationship addiction is present, no other approach is likely to work as well as a twelve step approach to recovery."

Als er sprake is van relatieverslaving, zal geen enkele andere benadering waarschijnlijk zo goed werken als die van het twaalf stappen programma.

16 juni "It is the nature of women who love too much to greatly minimize how bad the situation has become. The attempts to control the obsession repeatedly fail, and there is an increasing disparity between one's public image and one's secret, private behavior." Het is typerend voor vrouwe...

15 juni "Many of us, after our first recovery, discover we have a next recovery as well. Recovery in one area often makes it clear how unmanageable life is in another area." Velen van ons ontdekken na herstel van onze eerste verslaving dat we nog een andere verslaving hebben. Herstel op he...